Give Yourself Permission to Be a Selfish Bitch

Jun 01, 2017

Are you willing to choose YOU first? 

We've been taught that it's the selfish thing to do, but if we know that we create our realities from the inside out, doesn't make sense that you need to make your state of being and what's important to you the number one priority? 

What if choosing you was the best thing you could do for anyone? 

NO LIMITS, JUST LOVE - Chandra Nicole 



Today I Understood My Message Like Never Before

May 31, 2017

If you've been hanging out with me for awhile (or even a few days) I'm certain it's glaringly obvious that my message is this:

you have no limits!
you don't have to settle!
you really can have it all!

The funny thing about messengers is that sometimes a message will flow through you for a long time before you actually even fully understand it yourself. And so the message is just as much for the messenger (if not more so) as it is for those she delivers the message to.

Even the simplest of messages have multi-dimensional layers of meaning.

For instance, I once had the words 'You ARE what you seek" tattooed on my ribcage. It took me years to really REALLY understand what that even meant. It's like I needed myself to 'Get IT' so much that I had to permanently etched the words into my skin, for it to sink in. LOL

The reason I'm sharing all this is because this morning as I was engaging in my daily divine disciplines (which include a FUCK TON of mindset work and journaling)I suddenly



Stop Behaving Like a Muggle & Do Some Magic

May 30, 2017

You guys... your number one priority should be:

This has not a damn thing to do with the action you're used to (although certain impulses for specific powerful actions as you know them, will spring forth from this flow)

This has to do with turning yourself in the direction of the current of what you're wanting, so that it can sweep you away and carry you, instead you trying to carry the current (which is what most of us humans are trying to do)

This has to do with otherworldy magical BEing shit.
you know... Your Words Are Your Wand, kinda shit... you get what you ARE kinda shit.

I get it, you want things to change and you want them to change yesterday and you've been taught that working hard will get you there

labor, labor, labor
effort, effort, effort

and so you carry on,
even though it hasn't really worked out for you yet.
At least not in the capacity you get the feeling you'd like it to.

I'm here to tell you, that there is an easier...


Why Your Money Intentions Aren't Working

May 29, 2017

Yes, intention is everything. I say it ALL the time. However, arbitary money intentions (or any kind of intentions really) by themself are floppy and lifeless, that's why they don't work well and that's why despite all your disciplined intention setting, you're still not getting the results that you crave. 

There has to be something deeper, more meaningful for you, in order to be compelled by it. In order to transcend your current circumstances, and in order to bring what you are desiring to life. 

So what is it that activates your intentions? 


The act of purposefully emotionally connecting to your intentions connects the current you with the future you that already has what you are wanting.

Emotionally connecting to your intentions creates intrinsic motivation deep within you that is FAR more powerful than any conscious intention setting or willpowering that you could ever do.

Emotionally connecting to your intentions activates the power that creates...


How In the Hell Did I Ever Make Myself Fit In?

May 28, 2017

These days, my life is pretty easy breezy,
But today was a really rough go from the start.

Just to preframe this post, my life is so fucking brilliant in many MANY ways. I do the work I adore, I live on a tropical island, and I’m about to set out on a high class gypsy trek across the world for a year with my daughter, just because.

Circumstantially however,
I currently find myself in a scenario I’ve outgrown.
I’m committed to this scene for another month
as I tie up the loose ends--
because logistics and adulting, you know.

I’m really TRULY wondering
"how in the hell did I ever make myself fit here?"

Last night as I sat with them
And they drank their light beers
and played their tiny ball game with arbitrary rules
and talked about things like war and jobs and weekends…
I wondered how I ever once squeezed myself into that life

And for some damn reason,
today I’m phased by their choices.

Phased in deeper ways than the fact that said...


An Affirmative Message From My Journal to You

May 27, 2017

I need nothing from anything or anyone. 

I get all that I require from my source -
The intrinsic source that springs forth from within me.

I can relax and just enjoy my life.
All is truly well
And I am wealthy beyond anything my mind could ever imagine.

I trust in my inspirations and intuitive nudges.
I know that when I act upon them with blind faith and peace in my heart,
all works out perfectly.
I trust that even if I get scared and don’t act upon my internal promptings,
All is STILL working out perfectly.

However, my preference is --
To surrender my limitations
To align myself with the voice of the universe
To choose love over fear more often than not
To act from abundance, not scarcity

I know for certain when i do this
I invoke the miraculous
I activate the power that creates the cosmos
I become a cooperative component to my wildest dreams
I be the change that changes my world.

Today, I move forth in certainty of all this.
And more.
I know in my heart of hearts that not...


Two Things You Must Do to Powerfully Shift Your Reality

May 26, 2017

If you’re wanting different circumstances in your life and nothing seems to be budging, 

then you HAVE to do something differently.

My sweet love Alby once said:
Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results is the definition of insanity (or something brilliant like that)

Are you crazy?
Well most likely
But you might as well harness your craziness in favor of a Fuck Yeah! Life.

You’ve got to decide what you’re wanting then get really really REAL about what it’s going to take to make that happen.

Here’s a hint: it has less to do with massive action and more to do with massively aligned focus

Okay, enough hinting around
I’ll just tell you exactly
The two things that need to happen
in order for your desires to manifest quickly


Massively aligned focus takes loads of clarity & commitment to DAILY divine discipline (this helps you find your clarity. Which came first? Who the fuck cares)



Death Became My Savior

May 25, 2017

When I was 31 years old, death became my savior.

I had reached a crux of my adult life which featured me, in the same red wine and tear-stained light blue yoga pants I'd been wearing for a week straight. Unable to make myself get off the couch and do this thing my midwestern upbringing was telling me to do...

You know, that thing with the job and the weekends and the marriage and the once-a-year vacations and the retirement.

All the people around me seemingly had found contentment in the simplicity of this lifestyle, but I knew in my heart there was something different for me.

I'd been knowing this for many years actually, but I was scared.

You see, back then I wasn't equipped with the trust I have now in my own creative capacities or in the perfection of the universe. I was so damn scared that it would backfire on me... that I'd be a fool to stray from what 'works'. I was scared that I would fail.

But do you know what I was even more scared of?

I was terrified of living a life that...


When You Show the F Up, Shit Changes Fast

May 25, 2017

At the beginning of the year I set some extremely powerful intentions around happiness and wealth, and holy shit has my life changed in a few short months.

I got really fucking real about what I wanted my life to look and feel like -- and held that up with what I was spending my time focusing on.

It became ridiculously clear to me that what I was choosing did not match up with the life I desired.

I realized that if I kept doing what I was doing, there was no way in hell I would ever align with the life I KNOW in my heart is waiting for me.

And so, I have been making some MONUMENTALLY powerful changes that have challenged my self concept to the core (in the best way possible)

I'm no stranger to making BOLD choices in favor of what I want. I've done it over and over and over again.
In fact, if asked, most people would say one of the things they appreciate most about me is my courage.

This time, however, has felt decidedly different than ever before.

Before I always managed to leave...


Make Your Wildest Dreams Your New Normal

May 25, 2017

Lately I’ve been allowing myself to want things that I never even thought to want before…

Such as reaching millions of people with my message & making multiple millions of dollars a year -- as well as pampering myself by getting my hair done several times a week in the salon, having first class travel experiences, and buying a closet full of high end designer pumps.
My previous wants and dreams were always very simple
at least they seem simple to me now because they’ve already become my reality.
That’s the funny thing about reality - what you’re dreaming of seems so out of reach until it’s not. And then it’s just normal.
If you’d have asked me ten years ago as I was enduring the arctic chill of a midwestern winter, scraping an inch of ice off my windshield, and then sliding all the way to the hair salon where I worked as a stylist
I would have told you that living in the tropics on an island, having...